Home again
We did see the inside, we did love it as much as we thought we would, but then we found out there were six other applications on the house already. We were tempted to just give up but decided to throw...
View ArticleWe learn
Almost twenty years ago I attempted to go to college after high school. I chose a school that might have been a great fit for me now but in my youth I fucked it up. Hard. I used to blame it on the...
View ArticleThighs
Chicken thighs, man. If ever I had a nemesis in the food world, they'd be it. They look all innocent and friendly in the package, like tiny pink juicy chicken breasts all lined up in a row. Once you...
View ArticlePut this in your Thanksgiving belly
Hey dudes. It's been a long time. Eventually I'll get back to baring my soul on these pages but in the interim it's almost Thanksgiving and that makes it a good time to repost my favorite stuffing...
View ArticleThe way I do it
It's May 2008, a really fine May too, the sun shines and the streets are coated in delicate cherry blossom petals. I've just spent the better part of a morning getting scrubbed, plucked and polished...
View ArticleOn the Inside
List the tribes you belong to. Talk about the experience of being in your element with your tribes.A few years ago I was living in a lovely, expensive double studio on Hawthorne Boulevard, the heart...
View ArticleFear wins
Talk about your childhood bedroom.My bedroom is at the end of the hall, the creamy white walls covered in clusters of delicate pink roses. I am sitting cross-legged in an ocean of green low-pile...
View ArticleI go away
Talk about a time when you left home.I am crouched in the tall weeds in a field across the street from my house. I am small, maybe 7 or 8. Old enough to be in school because it's after school now, in...
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Now I see
What's the most difficult challenge you've faced in a relationship?I've only ever had one relationship that was serious enough to have challenges beyond "we're all wrong for each other and we should...
View ArticleI'm up
When did you realize you were a grown up?Okay, my knee-jerk reaction is to say I'm not a grown-up and I don't intend to ever be one, but I guess that's not entirely accurate. Growing up, to me, is...
View ArticleAn introduction
Who are you?You don't really want to know. You think you do, but if I started telling my story, my whole story, and if we were sitting across from each other in a diner or a bar or a table on a train,...
View ArticleEverything is amazing
So if you read the comments on the last entry you won't be even the tiniest bit surprised that moments after I wrote it I connected with the inimitable Marilyn Wann, fat activist extraordinaire. She...
View ArticleHave reached destination. Want bed.
Hi friends! I'm writing this from a hostel in San Francisco. Yes, after 17 hours on a train, 30 mins on an Amtrak bus, 15 minutes on a Muni bus and a half-mile walk, I'm finally, finally here. And...
View ArticleFingers crossed
I'm at loose ends lately, literally and figuratively. At this very moment about a third of my belongings are packed into cardboard boxes neatly stacked by the front door, another third in bags awaiting...
View ArticleSay Uncle (or...Aunt?)
My brother's wife had a baby a few weeks ago, and from what I can gather, parenthood seems to be a very humbling experience. No matter how well-prepared you are, there are going to be moments when you...
View ArticleJoin the club
I've been thinking about Apple products lately, specifically iPads. I've been considering getting an iPad, presumably to use for writing though it is clear that its usefulness as a writing computer is...
View ArticleCommitment
Mention a ten day vipassana meditation course to someone who has experienced it and you will invariably get a warning about the hell that is day four. Day four is when this little experiment you've...
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A poem
Happy face spiders Are not big enough to be scary butWhy must they grin so mockingly?Arachnid Theridion grallator, “Bob”,I hope we can coexist with a minimum of awkwardness andInvasion of personal space
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To find out
I bought these ranunculus (ranunculuses?) at New Seasons the other day. Though I love looking at the flowers on my way in and out of the market I don't often allow myself to spend money on such...
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